Butterfly Dreams

Enlighten Me, Please

I don’t understand it. I truly don’t. The weird thing is, I think I did once.

People keep posting their personal issues/drama/problems all over public sites. I see this mainly on Facebook but on other sites as well. Talking shit about their ex’s publicly, ranting about their parents publicly, hinting at disputes with others publicly and even dedicating their status to bashing one or more people openly. 

I suppose I understand the need for others to justify their feelings/opinions but otherwise, I just don’t get it.

You’re only showing the world that you’re ignorant. Either you wish another person to see/view/read your feelings or opinions without having to directly confront them (Which solves and proves nothing.) or you’re starved for attention and are satisfied with cyber justifications, oppositions, or responses of any sort. 

I only post things about my personal life here (On occasion) because I remain anonymous to most and whatever I post here doesn’t have a direct affect on anyone in my personal life or even remotely near it. 

I hate drama. I am lucky enough to be one of the very few in this world to say that I barely have any. The only drama I have is family drama and most of it isn’t even mine, it just effects me. I don’t see how anything good can come of publicly posting that your ex is a bi-och or that your mom is a cunt for grounding you because you broke a rule. Posting your “deeper” feelings about a boy/girl (Whether they be good or bad) does not prove your feelings, it discredits them. Deep and meaningful emotions are deserving; Deserving of eye-contact, deserving of thoughtfulness and a thoughtful revealing. Good or bad, if you truly mean something and truly want it to be heard, the only way of doing so is to directly, personally and humbly conveying those feelings. Otherwise, the only message that can be heard is, “These feelings and opinions did not mean enough to me to actually express/resolve them properly. Here is my garbage for all to see.”

At least, that’s how I see it. Then again, I have a very skewed view of the world and humanity. Not for the better or for the worse. Just skewed. 

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Bin Laden is dead.

I rejoice in the beauty that justice has been served. That someone who so deserved to die was finally brought to justice.

Still, it’s a morbid happiness. It’s almost sad that a whole country can celebrate the death of one man. That, together, so much anger, hatred, fear and bitterness can be aimed at a single person. Don’t get me wrong, he was absolutely deserving of his fate and just like all the other Americans, on this day, we are proud and elated that such a person that has committed such terrible crimes, with so much blood on his hands, was finally brought down. That a simple man has such power, such fury, and hatred… I suppose that’s what makes my happiness so melancholy. 

None the less…

Well done, America. Well done.

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Dear Silly Girls,

Yes you, the ones that post things like, “If you really loved me, you’d fight for me.” on their Facebook. The ones that openly mock themselves and publicly display their desperate stupidity for all to see. I have but one thing to say to you; If said person really did love you, you wouldn’t feel the need for them to prove that they would fight for you. You should already know they would. And if you don’t know that already, than no, he doesn’t “really love” you.

Sincerely,

Girls Who Suffer Your Stigma 

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Happiness

Sometimes we don’t know how happy we truly are until we lose that happiness. Isn’t it terrifying to think that we may currently have happiness that we don’t even realize? And at any moment, it could be taken away from us. 

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Friends

I don’t think that we’re supposed to completely like our friends 100%. Heaven knows I don’t. I have six people I would introduce as my “bestfriend”. 

One comes off really pompous. They strive to be ahead of everyone else and must make a point to prove their superiority every waking moment of their life.

One is very ignorant. They believe that they know the world, how it should work and should be run. They will shut out things they don’t understand without taking the time to understand them.

One gives far too much of themselves away. They are very kind hearted but it’s jading them. 

One overworks themselves and complains about it but then takes on 20 new projects or commitments for every time they complain about it.

One is absolutely self centered. They haven’t tasted the bitterness of real reality due to a sheltered life. I’m witnessing them currently get a sample and, of course, they aren’t liking.

One is totally oblivious. It seems they can be there for everyone but me and themselves. I don’t know how to interpret that but I remain friends with them anyway. I couldn’t leave if I tried.

Still, there are two-million reasons as to why I love each one of them for every reason I have to dislike them. I don’t think friendship is always about compatibility. I can easily say that no matter which ones I am with or talk to, I can full heartedly trust all of them. I think that’s what true friendship is all about. People to trust. The other stuff, well, it’s just other stuff. Being compatible is a bonus =P

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